situations and experiences

Situations become experiences when we react to them happily or sadly, in other words we feel happy or sad about the happenings, but the situation has to pass, ....when we just witness the happenings or the situations in life and not relate our feelings as part of them, then the passing situation leaves no memory nor reminiscence. it just leaves without any footprints. Life is a transition of phases where one has to pass from the state of experiences into a state of no reminiscence.it is an evolution of self that is probably dictated by the self itself, the final destiny ( the real self as quoted by the many yogis), that we start to trace with a pace dictated by our reactions. The reactions tend to deviate our path yet they are the ones that bring us back on track...... , probably the thought of being thoughtless itself creates the state of Thoughtlessness, a complete bliss. Life on the other hand has to be lived,... as one has to complete thy responsibilities and duties but again, feeling responsible for the life of another ( eg. a parent for a child) is probably a futile thought because everyone comes into this world with his own path towards destiny. Live life like a duty and live the happiness in it as long as life lets one live or as long as one reaches thyself