Sunday, March 28, 2021

The World in and as the Mirror

Today I want to share my poem written about 22 years ago... somehow never put it up in the blog earlier.


I looked into the mirror and smiled at it,

I could see a world with many bright things in it.

The people were so simple and very neat'

All spoke politely and were so sweet.

The evergreen trees were so high,

To reach the clear, bright sky.

Indeed the azure was calm

And the vast oceans beneath were warm.

The leaves shone under the sunlight

And the blossoms added to their delight.

It was a world so pretty and bright, 

Free from all malice and fight.

A bliss none could deny.

I again looked into the mirror and frowned at it.

I could now see a whole new world in it.

The people looked so different.

Their attitude was so distant.

Their sweetness had faded. 

An emptiness had evaded.

Each one looked down upon the other

With ego and dis-honor

Each one complained of the world's ill-manner.

Yet forgot they made the world and its flavor.

Ah! What a pity,

The world was neither bright nor pretty.

It was a world full of lust, pride and jealousy.

A tear rolled down my from my eye.

Now a vague image started to appear

In the same mirror

It was me, only me

I could now clearly see

There was no world,

There were no people

It was only my smile, 

It was only my frown,

That brightened my world and also brought it down.

I laughed at myself

As it was only me in the mirror all the while.




 

 

Saturday, March 27, 2021

The line that was longer than mine

hey all, 

It has been a while, that I felt like writing something.. probably lost myself, lost my thoughts... life definitely brings us back to them. 

As a child I grew up hearing... whenever you are sad or upset about something, always draw your troubles as a line and look for someone with a longer line.. or rather more troubles. Life gives us many opportunities to grow, live, care and share.... we all lose... losses are again of different kinds.... 

Yet, we look at the world from only a single perspective of our eyes... just take time to single out and sit in the midst of your family, friends, office, acquaintances or even strangers, your country ... just watch them, try to know them and observe... then just close your eyes and weigh all their troubles against yours.... the world suddenly seems huge but again your world seems to be a tiny speck... draw lines, the length of each line would be based on different issues.... we suddenly realize that the world is and people are reeling from far bigger ,also unknown and unheard troubles.... You might realize that against their lines ,,  yours might be smaller, or may be it is just a dot or you haven't even started drawing.

Yes all of us are in problems, probably because we are looking at them.... but just draw your line of troubles against someone else's line of troubles... I bet each of us would end up with smaller lines.... 

.... The line .....that was longer than mine....

Wednesday, November 1, 2017

tit bits

Every dwelling Self in this world is worthy in its own way... but the moment one gets mesmerized with this worth... the self is lost

Never Use Trust To Misuse It

Change is an Inevitable Reality, Whether it is For Good or Otherwise is determined by its reception.

Perfection in Life is a Balance..... Balance the Facts to Perfect the act

Never Complain of the Path that Leads to your destination.... Coz... Paths are not made out convenience but they are carved out of Perseverence

Every event in life has a time and place....
work towards it....and... let the time place the event at its own pace

We live with  Hope.... a hope that tomorrow will be better.... Let us Live with a Contentment ..... A contentment that needs No Tomorrow

Silently the Silence crept in.... it seemed to be more sane than any noise

Don't Cocoon me inside your Desires, Ambitions and Expectations., I exist with you always........... always your HAPPINESS

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Let them



Thoughts …. Rumbling through… tumbling through…
over and over… over each other
….just like the waves.

Thoughts…. wondering about…wandering about…. 
Over and over… all around each other
…. Just like the wind.

Thoughts….. trickling through …. peeping through……….. 
playing around the clouds…
....just like the sun rays.

Let them flow, for they are meant to flow.
Let them blow, for they are meant to blow.
Let them glow, for they are meant to glow.

let them, just let them and enjoy the bliss.

Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Fixing everything

Today morning my son asked me ' amma does jai hanuman fix everything', I smiled at him and said... if you try he will definitely fix everything.... but really true.. in this space of time and life... everything is actually fixed as it is... in its own unique way... whatever we name it as good or bad, right or wrong, probably, it is just us trying to change the fixed.... really to fix it??...this was my food for thought today... as a mother I am reliving every bit of life again in a changed new way... with a changed new understanding... as I always say.... my little mentor is my great mentor. 

Friday, December 2, 2016

Change

change is a caterpillar turning into a butterfly
change is going on to be more colourful
change is creation of a new life
change is the birth of a new generation
not that something new is a change but change is always new...
change is always a refreshment be it outside or within one
change is a beauty that compares to no-one
change is a cycle that accepts to repeat itself
change is an acceptance that makes life more simple
change is simply the most magnificent
change is a smile with a new meaning
change is an innocence that wins everyone
change is a wisdom that is so powerful
change is a pace that races none
.......an inevitable permanence 

Thursday, October 22, 2015

recreating science needs understanding of its core knowledge, understanding science needs wisdom,.... what is science; it is everything

Saturday, August 15, 2015

life is beautiful because we do not live the same moment every moment... the rhythm of its musical notes play high and low to glow up the show. live it, love it and be one with it to make it simply a bliss.

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Varna...Casteism ..a prejudice or a stratification based on skill, talent and occupation

Hi, The topic of my writing today is caste system.... being an indian and a hindu..i will discuss and give my opinion and understanding about the caste system in hinduism which is more aptly described as the 'Varna'. Varna is actually a theoretical classification based on occupation. This term Varna  later in the 1900 was overlapped  with the word Jati. Jati is a caste or a community or a sub-community. Each community was recognised by a particular skill that was mastered by its people and those group of people belonged to one 'Jati'. Varna and jati are two sanskrit words.

Ancient Hindu literature classified all humankind, and all created beings, in principle into four varnas;
  • the Brahmins: priests, teachers and preachers.
  • the Kshatriyas: kings, governors, warriors and soldiers.
  • the Vaishyas: cattle herders, agriculturists, artisans and merchants.
  • the Shudras: labourers and service providers.
if we try to understand why and on what basis  these Varnas were created, it is found that they are closely related to the skill/talent, the knowhow and the ability of the people to live, survive and work in a particular community. it is a well known fact that while some people are masters of intellect, they may be average in valor. whilst the brave ones may be poor is trading. Some people of the community may be good care givers. All these different capabilities of different people are because of the diverse attitude and natures possessed or adapted by them. 

The social stratification was purely created to provide a smooth functioning of the society that was at the same time efficient. A person who was wise, intellectual and who could motivate the good in a society was a brahmin. The person who was brave, courageous and able to protect the community and lead a clan was the kshatriya. The vaishya was the clever man who could trade well and help in the economic upbringing of the society, and finally the care givers or the ones with the immense ability to provide service to the needs of others in the society were the shudras. So, now we can assign or classify the present day different professions and occupations under these four classes.

The origin of Varnas or caste was never a prejudice, Though with ages people have  brought in their own hierarchy and biasing based on these various classes or groups. 

All these Varnas are essential for the harmonious functioning of life and all of them do exist in every individual as one's inherent nature. we need to develop our own conscience to try to master all these Varnas for a better life.

' Varna' is a sanskrit term that means color.... or appearance... in depth it relates to the color of the aura of an individual.

Be a brahmin who has the wisdom to decipher the right from the wrong and spread positivity around. Be a Kshatriya by being brave enough to face the world and protect the good that dwells. Be the clever vaishya who knows how to make a living. Be a shudra who sees no boundaries when someone needs help and service.

Thursday, July 16, 2015

A person who cannot decipher a fact on presentation will not be able to accept any answers. The "why" will be left thirsty.it has to be explained to the self.

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

when a solution becomes a resolved liberation


As we all move up on the ladder of life we face situational dilemmas at each step........... things turn out sometimes positively, according to our needs and wants or at other times they take the other route.....or as we say, it all went wrong. Yet, we fail to understand that whatever,... the issue is resolved and the result is declared..and this simple solution actually relieves us.

waiting for the result is like a bondage that obstructs us from stepping onto the next step of the ladder. Once we know the decision we are free and relieved to move ahead onto the next goal. it is only when we regret and carry over the reminiscences of the previous solutions, we either feel great or lost. we tend to compare the previous gains or losses with the ongoing...ultimately losing focus on the objective/path of life. the moment we keep our options open and embrace the pattern of life..we are free and liberated and all the solutions and results further liberate our thought dimensions. The steps of the ladder in life have to be completed but when they are done with a liberated thought, physical and material bondages (gain and loss) are of no consequence.

Thursday, June 25, 2015

life has a reason for living it............ but if one lives life for a reason or a season.... the reason will itself be lost

Sunday, May 17, 2015

Hindu customs and culture

Hindu customs, culture and god. All these have always been responded in different ways by the various generations of hindus themselves, let alone the world. So, today I just want to share my thoughts on them. Well, people have always mentioned that there was a time when people believed in customs blindly and they used to follow them without any questioning of 'why'. So those yesteryear people were branded as ignorant. Well, Today most of us indians question 'why',..and well that is very good!!. However when we do not find any logical reasoning limited to our limited understanding and knowledge, we discard the same as superstition and blind belief. No doubt many customs have been laid with extra covers of fear and superstition, yet, is it not less of a fact that those customs existed from times unknown.... that we now discard them just because the reasoning we get or probably we assume as per our understanding is not worthy. Then, Is this not ignorance!! the existence of any thing, living, nonliving or even a happening needs to be questioned. Such query needs to be answered fully but must never die out and such queries do have solid answers.

why do Indian gods have an image. OK, even if they do why do they look supernormal... with more eyes, heads, hands. why do some gods have heads other than human, like the elephant, monkey or the lion?. Why does each god have a specific animal ride?

Well, sounds interesting but unrealistic? here lies my question now....what is real and what is unreal. Is this human body and the world itself really real. ?

If what we earthlings see and visualise within the the realms of the earth's atmosphere is real, then our imagination can never go beyond this limited reality. We imagine aliens as having some funny body shapes, having multiple heads or hands or ...... and we definitely believe they must be more powerful than us as our movies show them with huge heads. We unknowingly consider them super human with better advanced technologies and living adaptations. however, we actually do not know their real identity...... Hold on, I am nowhere trying to say that there is a connection between hindu gods and our imaginative neighbours from the universe.

What I am trying to say is that man can only believe what he has witnessed on this earth, be it visual, audio, smell, touch or feel. These are the five senses any earthling is armoured with. These are what make our living more easy to understand and accept. If Improperly used without reasoning these same senses can make our life ignorant too.

At this point I would like to talk about our own imagination created superheroes, their superpowers and them being an inspiration to many kids. Is all this real real?! what is inspiration and what is a belief. Do we need to be inspired to believe in ourself?.... yes, it works for all of us.

At this point I would like to share this link herehttp://www.ishafoundation.org/blog/lifestyle/indian-culture/?ref=footerrel&pos=1

So back to our questioning.......why do we wear a bindi, why vermillion on the head, why do we light incense, why do we do arati in front of god, what is  naivedyam/nivedana to god. why are females restricted to go to temple during periods...why is a coconut so sacred for us. why are animals worshiped.... why and why.... there are so many ?????.  Before we try to answer these questions... we need to understand them and we need to understand the origin of all these practices. None of them have sprouted overnight without reason. I may be missing out many more practices.... but I will surely try to reason out the ones I have questioned in my life and will share them in my post.

please refer to my post on ' bindi' dated 4/8/2010 (mm/dd/yyyy)where the significance of vermillion on head has been discussed.
Please refer to my post on 'Idolatry' 11/13/2011(mm/dd/yyyy) where I have put forth the understandings of idols and their worship. we all believe that there is a force that is more powerful than the human intentions and actions that guides us, helps us or even can rage on us. Man can never win over the wits of time and nature. So, this force is the nature that surrounds us on earth and in the universe and that which is still a mystery to be understood. We talk of the big bang theory... what/who created it. Is it the nature or some power that some address as God?. So here we have something or someone unseen or unknown doing things like hurricanes, earthquakes, volcanoes etc out of the human control. So, we label it either as nature or address it more respectably as God. Now we conclude that god is the most powerful... is everywhere, can see and do almost everything or anything good or bad when he is furious. So to explain the ignorant few people who would otherwise become unruly.... who could otherwise find it difficult to concentrate and meditate on the powerful force guiding our life , man must have come up with the idea of idols.Please refer to my post on 'Idolatry' 11/13/2011(mm/dd/yyyy)

Now The idol has been given, but how do we differentiate it from the normal man and make it superior,for the understanding of people that; this particular idol represents god. The many eyes of the god signify his onlooking of many things. the many heads signify superiority in intelligence. the many hands signify immense strength and having the virtue of doing many things and being more capable. we have gods specific for wealth, studies, medicine, food.... basically, only to make man know the importance of each particular entity in life and give respect to them. we have always been told that wasting food will annoy our deity , Annapurna devi and we may be punished by her. This was mainly to bring discipline to life so that all the sections of people lived in harmony. This was only to make life smoother to live in.
Man shares only a part in this nature and he is definitely not superior to the other creation in life . The animal heads merely make the animals more respectable so that they are not considered inferior to man.

However, Hindu culture and existence works very well and the very same way without Idols and idol worship and even without religion. Have we ever thought of what and why the religion came up for. Probably, as per my understanding from the various experiences in life, religion is merely a school of thought to discipline the society, that could otherwise be baffled about what is right and wrong. Religion is a mere guidance. Hinduism tolerates all cultures and religions because they are not different from each other and because true hinduism believes that different cultures, customs and religions are methods of organising people. At this point I would like to share the beautiful thoughts of the well known Sadhguru http://sadhguru.org/atoz/c/culture/

Why are females not allowed in temples during menses. In our homes a female during menses is asked to occupy a small section of a room where she spends the four days of heavy bleeding. Why ..is this an orthodox, unreasonable or a discriminating act?. NO, definitely there is much reasoning, science and a positive aspect. This custom has been existing from times unknown. In the earlier days when sanitary methods were still under-developed, females used to use cloth in place of sanitary napkins to serve the purpose. The conditions demanded more cleaning measures and were less hygienic. Also, we all know that during those days females would be weaker and need more rest. So, females were restricted so that they would work less, be more at rest and this also served in maintaining the hygiene of one and the entire house.
Blood is the flowing energy in our body... loss of blood by any means is a disturbance in our energy field. Temples are fields of high energy (please refer the post on Idolatry) So when an individual with a disturbed energy field enters the high energy field, it probably could produce sudden change in the energy levels of the body that might not be able to be borne/tolerated by the individual, causing further weakness.

why do we light a lamp in our house , why do we light incense, what is aarti, what is naivedyam.
Hindu culture when read carefully is full of acts that represent/signify something more close to spirituality than religion. A lamp is a positive energy that keeps darkness at bay, let the darkness be more physical or more in terms of human intentions. Darkness brings fear. Light brings hope, energy, strength and confidence. Burning of the incense made of natural fragrances like sandal, jasmine.... would emanate a serene fragrance to make the mind and body more pleasant and serene.... more close to spiritualism. Burning of the incense has a significance, if we can look at it in another way. As the incense stick burns... it gives away an ascending smoke that emanates beautiful fragrance. Human life as it ages....or burns in the fire of life...must give away the material wishes, desires and attachments as one ascends towards reality and at the same time leave a beautiful fragrance/memory behind that would become an example for others to follow and remember.

There are some customs that ask for offerings in the form of animal sacrifices.... man has understood the superficial meaning and is sacrificing the animals... but actually the inner meaning asks for the sacrifice of the raw and cruel nature of a particular animal that exists in every human being. sacrificing a goat or sheep... is in essence sacrificing the arrogance and thoughtless actions that exist in man's nature. goat and sheep...particularly the ram are taken as examples of arrogance.

Camphor is used to burn as aarti in front of god. It signifies the burning away of our ego in front of the supreme power and merge as one into it (as the smoke from the burning aarti/camphor or even the incense merges into the atmosphere)

coconut tree is the only tree which grows by sowing the coconut itself,which is not same with the other trees. The coconut is a significance of prosperity and growth and is thus, considered holy. Naivedyam is a procedure where fruits and flowers and various dishes are offered to god... in the presence of a burning lamp. Incense is burned and Aarti is given at the time of offer. The offerings signify our fruits of life(children, family, attachments), our favourite items (dishes, our wishes and desires) and attachments, gains, losses. In the essence naivedyam is a means of offering the entire self to the nature(god). It is just merging of a part of nature into nature that is eternal and supreme and the only. giving away children, family etc does not mean giving away the people in a physical and superficial sense, but it has an inherent depth in that.... family, children, our desires, belongings that  man assumes to be his possessions and are difficult to let go are actually bondages,. Man, his attachments and belongings are all nature, not different from each other. once we accept this reality that all that one sees is physical and mortal and the real immortal is nature and we are all one with it... the acts of gaining or giving really hold no sense nor any meaning.

understanding of death.... merging of the elemental and material body into the soil and air and merging of the energy/divinity within into the energy of the universe.

Finally what I have learnt from hindu culture, god, customs and religion (for me all hold the same) is that God is the nature and its power within and around us. What we do in life is guided by our elders and their created culture, religion and customs and this is just a journey/path to understand life/reality. This reality is nothing but dwelling in harmony with our nature as a part of it and finally (death) merging as one into it.

Life is the biggest teacher a man has and  will always have.. everything in life is symbolic with open answers. The only trick is to decipher the positive and apt meaning out of it.

Sunday, May 10, 2015

The Flow Of River

The flow of the river water is dictated by the slope of the ground upon which it flows, nature has never heard the silent wishes of the water,if there were any, nor did it ever hear the water complain. Yet, the water glides without resistance and merges into the ocean as if it always belonged to be there. There is so much to learn from this simple nature of water .... the most beautiful way to live life and to be content.
Happiness is everywhere , let us not cocoon it with our wishes, resistance and complaints.